Sex Dictionary

A capella: sexual intercourse without a condom. Heavily disapproved by escorts, see Safe Sex.

AC/DC: slang for bisexual. This modern coinage derives from comparing sexual current, alternating between homosexuality and heterosexuality , to the initials for the two types electricity: alternating current (AC) and direct current (DC).

AC/DC Dildo: a dildo with two sized heads, a large head on one side and a smaller head on the other.

Adult: an individual who is considered an adult, particularly by law.

Adult Toy: a device (like a vibrator or dildo) that is designed to increase sexual pleasure.

Adult Toy Cleaner: a special cleaning solution, usually with antibacterial properties, that is used to clean sex toys.

Afterglow: a good feeling experienced after sex, especially the feeling of a woman after an orgasm.

A-levels: slang for anal sex. Also called “Greek”.

All-inclusive: all services are included under one flat fee, no hidden charges.

A2M: an abbreviation for ass-to-mouth, a non-interrupted act in which an object (a penis, a finger or a dildo) is removed from the rectum of one performer and placed into the mouth of that same or another performer. Synonym Southern love. Heavily disapproved by escorts, see Safe Sex.

Amateur: a non professional, part-time sex worker, or a civilian.

Amazon: a type of woman with a muscular body shape.

AMP: Asian Massage Parlor offering massages and sometimes sex.

 

Bait & Switch: internet, newspaper, or phone advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the woman who shows up, or she has been grossly misrepresented.

Bareback (BB): slang for having sex without using a condom. Heavily disapproved by most escorts, see also Safe Sex.

Bareback Blowjob (BBBJ): slang for oral sex without using a condom. Mostly disapproved by escorts, see Safe Sex.

B2B: an abbreviation for body-to-body massage, an erotic massage when a masseuse slides with her body over the client using a massage oil.

BBW: big beautiful woman.

B&D: a term meaning bondage and discipline.

BDSM: a form of sex play or role-play which combines Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS) and Sadomasochism (SM). A catch-all term for a broad array of sexual practices, especially involving restraint and inflicting pain. Mostly disapproved by escorts, or escorts choose for a form of soft active SM, when the escort lady is dominant and practices BDSM in a soft form (like spanking, using toys on a man).

BF (butt fucking): slang for anal intercourse.

BFP: a BDSM abbreviation for bound for pleasure.

Call girl: a call girl or escort is a higher-class sex worker who is not visible to the general public. Nor does she usually belong to an institution like a brothel, although she may be employed by an escort agency. The client must make an appointment, usually by calling a telephone number — hence the term “call girl”. Call girls are generally the most attractive of the prostitutes (and the most expensive).

CBJ: an abbreviation for covered blowjob. Describes a blowjob while wearing a condom.

C&B Torture: a BDSM term — abbreviation for cock & ball torture.

CFS: Covered Full Service. Sex with condom.

CIM: an abbreviation for “cum in mouth”. Heavily disapproved by most escorts, see also Safe sex.

Civilian: a woman who makes herself available for sexual encounters without financial charges. May be less discreet than a sex worker and more interested in a relationship.

Clitoris (clit): the small, nerve-dense area of skin located between labia on the upper part of the vagina.

Cock ring: a device, often a leather strap, placed at the base of an erect penis in order to restrict blood flow and maintain an erection. A cock ring must be put on and removed when the penis is soft. First pull your scrotal skin and balls through the ring, then fold your flaccid penis down and pull the ring up over it.

COF: cum on face. Mostly disapproved by escorts.

Coitus: a sexual intercourse involving ejaculation from the penis.

Come (cum): slang for an orgasm, or to orgasm.

Completion: orgasm.

Condom (CD):

Condom is a thin piece of material, usually latex, that is worn over the penis during sexual activity in order to prevent pregnancy or protect from sexually transmitted diseases. There are two types of condoms: male condoms and female condoms. The male condom is a covering that is rolled over a male’s penis to prevent semen from entering the vagina or anus.

Condoms can be made out of latex, polyurethane, or lambskin. Lambskin condoms DO NOT prevent against STIs or HIV, however, they do protect against pregnancy. Condoms provide different levels of risk reduction for different STIs because infections are spread differently— some STIs are spread by contact with bodily fluids while others are spread by skin-to-skin contact.

When used correctly and consistently, condoms are extremely effective in preventing pregnancy. Numerous studies show that with perfect use, condoms are 98% effective in preventing pregnancy and STIs/HIV, and with typical use, they are 86% effective.

HOW TO USE A MALE CONDOM

• Check the expiration date.

• Gently open the condom and slide it out of the pack. DO NOT USE YOUR TEETH. Be careful of jewelry and nails.

• When putting on the condom make sure it rolls down completely. If the condom is inside out, it will not roll down easily. If it is inside out, remove it and get a new one because there may be sperm from the pre-cum on the condom.

• Pinch the tip of the condom while you roll it down to the base of the penis.

• For extra lubrication, use a water-based lubricant like KY Jelly. Do not use an oil-based lube (like lotion or Vaseline) because it can cause the condom to break.

• After ejaculation (coming), withdraw the penis while holding the base of the condom before the penis becomes soft. Remove the condom and throw it in the trash.

The female condom is made of polyurethane and provides protection against pregnancy and STIs, including HIV. It consists of a tube-like sheath with one flexible polyurethane ring at each end. The female condom is coated with a silicone-based lubricant. The female and male condom should not be used together. Using both together can cause slippage or breakage

HOW TO USE A FEMALE CONDOM

•Check the condom’s expiration date and open the package carefully.

•Squeeze the inner ring with your thumb and middle fingers.

•Insert the inner ring into the vagina. Use your index finger to push the condom into the vagina as far as possible.

•The outer ring should lie against the outer lips of the vagina. Make sure the condom is not twisted.

•Guide the penis inside the condom.

•To remove the condom, twist the outer ring and pull the condom out of the vagina. Throw the condom in the trash.

Daisy chain: a sexual position involving multiple partners. One partner is pleasuring another, usually orally; the second is pleasing a third, and so on.

DATO: an abbreviation for Dining at the O; anilingus or oral stimulation of the anus.

DATY: an abbreviation for Dining at the Y; cunnilingus or oral stimulation of vagina or clitoris.

DDE: doesn’t do extras.

DDF: disease/drug free.

DDG: drop dead gorgeous.

Deep throat: fellatio in which the penis is inserted far into the mouth, entering the throat.

Deep tongue: a term for French kissing, or oral-vaginal sex where the tongue is inserted deep inside the vagina.

Dental dam:
Dental dam is a thin square or rectangular piece of latex used for oral sex on the vagina or anus. The dam is placed over the vagina (see left) or anus and acts as a barrier between one person’s body and the other person’s mouth. They come in various colors and flavors, such as Strawberry, Grape and Vanilla. Dams can help protect against infection and diseases, such as: Gonorrhea, Herpes, and HIV. They can be bought in some stores, or you can make your own using a condom or a latex glove. To make your own dental dam:
1. Carefully take a condom out of its package and unroll it.
2. Cut off the tip and base of the condom and cut down the length of the tube.
3. Unroll the condom into a rectangular sheet.
And that’s it! You now have a highly effective dental dam.
For the best results, use non-lubricated condoms that haven’t been treated with a spermicide (they tend to taste bad), and you might want to try out flavored, thin-latex condoms. These days, condoms come in a wide variety of flavors — so shop around and see which one taste best.

Eagle wings: the position where a woman’s legs are spread wide open during sex, especially when she received oral sex.

Eat out / eating pussy: slang for vaginal oral sex.

Ejaculation: the process during orgasm where semen is emitted forcefully through the penis.

English: spanking.

Erogenous Zone: any area of the body that when stimulated creates positive sexual sensations. Common erogenous zones include the genitals, breasts, nipples, and anus.

Erotic: a term meaning sexually stimulating or sexually arousing.

Erotic Dreams: dreams, which are sexual in nature — usually explicit sexual dreams.

Face sitting: a slang term for the practice of a woman sitting on a man’s face so he can perform oral sex on her.

Facial (CIF): slang for ejaculating on someone’s face.

Fanta: — an act of “daydreaming” or “fantasizing” about a situation that does not currently exist.

Fantasy Enactment: providing the facilities to help the client live out their fantasy, which might be anything to popping balloons to crossing a high bridge over a ravine.

FBSM: full body sensual massage.

Felching: to ejaculate into an anus and then lick or suck the semen out. Heavily disapproved by escorts, see Safe Sex.

Fellatio: the act of kissing, licking, or sucking the male genitals with the lips and tongue.

Fetish: a strong sexual interest in or obsession over some object, body part, or activity. Examples include foot fetish and latex fetish. Also used broadly to describe any non-traditional sex, especially BDSM.

Fingering: to stimulate the vagina with the fingers.

Fisting: to place much of the hand, or the entire hand, in the vagina or anus.

Flaccid: a non-erect or “soft” penis.

Flang: the corona of the penis.

Fleshpot: red light district or area where prostitutes hang out.

Gang bang: when many men have sex with a single woman one after another or even at the same time.

Get Your Rocks Off: slang for orgasm.

GFE (Girlfriend Experience): a session with a prostitute where she treats her client as if she were his girlfriend. It means that an escort will have a warm personality, be generally affectionate and be willing to kiss the client. This contrasts with a PSE (Porn Star Experience) which implies an encounter that is more lascivious and adventurous than affectionate and will typically include activities common to pornography such as anal sex.

Gigolo: old fashioned term for man who sells sex to women.

Glory Hole: slang for a hole, usually in a wall, in which a man inserts his penis that is stimulated manually or orally by someone on the other side.

Golden shower: urinating on someone else.

Gonga: anus

Gonzo: adult videos which lack any plot or pretense and just show people having sex on camera.

Half & Half: performing or receiving a blow job as well as an intercourse.

Hand job: manual stimulation of someone’s penis often resulting in his ejaculation; masturbating someone.

Hardcore: graphic sexual pictures, movies etc. which, by definition, show sexual penetration.

Hard-on: slang for an erection of the penis.

Hard Up: slang for someone who desires sex, but has not been able to achieve it.

Harness: a device that is worn around the waist, which attaches to or can be attached to a dildo. Harness compatible dildos are either flared at the base or connect to the harness with snaps.

Hedonist: a person who dedicates a significant amount of time to the pursuit of physical pleasure.

Incall: the location of the encounter, when the session takes place at the call girl’s location (her apartment or hotel room). Opposite to outcall.

Ipsism: masturbation.

Jack Off / Jacking Off: slang for masturbation, usually referring to a male.

Jelly: brightly colored and soft, squishy material used to make sex toys, specifically vibrators and dildos

Jigsaw: a sexual position where a man kneels down, and a woman kneels down on one leg, puts her other leg around the man’s thighs and sits on his penis.

Jill Off: slang for female masturbation.

Kinky: slang for sexual activity that is considered to be outside the norm.

Laid: refers to having had sexual intercourse.

Lap Dance: a form of adult entertainment where a woman dances provocatively in the “lap” of a man, often while wearing little or no clothing.

L/A/S: an abbreviation for Looks/Attitude/Service, a subjective ranking system. Each criteria separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = unattractive, but friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = very beautiful, but a negative attitude, and mediocre sex.

LFK: an abbreviation for Light French Kissing, i.e. open mouth but without tongue.

Libido: sexual interest, horniness.

Lingam: an ancient Indian term for the penis or a representation of the penis; appears in the Kama Sutra and often used in reference to Tantric sex. Yoni is a term for vagina.

Madame: from the “Ma dame” (my lady), a respectful title for a woman of high social status who owns a brothel. Often one of the most powerful women, a madame frequently has her PhD and speaks multiple languages. She is neither pimp nor prostitute, but a classy and extremely wealthy combination of the two. Pimps and prostitutes work under her.

Matinee: refers to an afternoon session of sex.

Meatus: the opening at the penis tip which allows both semen and urine to pass.

Menage a trois: when three people have sex together at once, a threesome.

Metrosexual: an affluent and often handsome heterosexual man whose self value is derived from his lifestyle and appearance.

Mileage: a subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating a sex worker is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both.

Nooner: a sexual encounter during the lunchtime hour, see also quickie.

No-show: escort or client never shows up for an appointment, does not contact in advance to cancel or warn.

NQBC: non-quitter, but covered. CBJ to completion.

Omnisexual: one who is attracted to all sexes.

Oral sex: a sex act where the mouth of one person is placed on the genitals of another. See also fellatio (oral sex performed on a man) and cunnilingus (oral sex performed on a woman).

Orgasm (O): the pleasurable, climactic release of sexual tension. In a man, it is usually accompanied by ejaculation.

Pearl Necklace: a man gives a woman a pearl necklace when he ejaculates on her chest, neck and shoulders as a result of him masturbating on her or thrusting between her breasts, also known as tit-fucking. Derived from the white drops of cum that are reminiscent of pearls. Normally disapproved by escorts.

Pegging: the act of penetrating a person’s anus with a strap-on dildo.

Petting: slang for foreplay, usually involving manual stimulation of the genitals.

PIV: penis in vagina.

Pleasure Pearls: another term for Ben-Wa Balls, or several other adult toys that consist of a string of beads or balls and are inserted into the vagina or anus.

Pooner: a hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. e.g. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on providers and the hobby.

Quickie: sexual intercourse that is short in duration.

Raw: sex without a condom; see bareback. Heavily disapproved by escorts, see also Safe Sex.

Red Light District (RLD): an area of a city or town where prostitution is available.

Reverse cowgirl: girl on top facing away.

Reverse massage: the client massages the provider.

Review: a critical evaluation of a provider. May include information on her looks, attitude and service.

Safe Sex:
Safe Sex means taking precautions to prevent any sexually transmitted infection (STI) spreading from one body to another.

Most STIs (HIV, gonorrhoea, hepatitis) are spread by bodily fluids (semen, blood, vaginal secretions) entering the blood stream of another person. They can enter via cuts and sores, or through the fragile membranes inside the vagina, urethra and anus.

Other STIs (e.g. Herpes, thrush, warts, chlamydia) are spread by actual physical contact of the infected area with the genitals or mouth.

Syphylis, crabs, and scabes can be caught from any skin contact. Sex toys which have been used by other people can spread infections. They need cleaning in bleach before being passed along.

Sex workers are professionals and make it their business to ensure they do not catch or pass on diseases. This includes all diseases – sexually transmitted infections, diseases of the skin, colds, coughs, flu and any other infection. That is why you should never visit a sex worker if you are at all ill. Arrive in clean clothes, having bathed and cleaned your teeth.

Sex workers insist on cleanliness. Some will require you to shower on arrival, and some will wash your body as part of an erotic service. However, they may also be discreetly searching for lice, scabs and crabs, and examining your genitals for spots and discharge, before engaging in any intimacy.

Clients and potential clients need to understand that this work provides the sex worker with a livelihood, and catching diseases and becoming ill will disrupt their income as well as their health.

It should be clear that you are far more likely to catch a sexually transmitted infection from someone you pick up in a bar or an amateur than from a professional. The reason for this is that professional sex workers are much more likely than other people to engage in safer sex.

How to stay safe:

– Use a condom for all oral, vaginal or anal sex. Cover any cuts elsewhere on the body if you are going to play with genitals, or rub, kiss or lick a partner.

– Use dental dam for protection during oral sex. It can be used as a barrier between mouth and vagina during cunnilingus and also between the mouth and the anus during anilingus. It prevents the transmission of virus-sized particles.

– Keep in mind that different diseases can be transmitted to both partners by oral sex. These include gonorrhea, Chlamydia, syphilis, herpes, genital warts, parasites, giardia and hepatitis.

– You don’t need to have sexual intercourse in order to enjoy sex. There are many other exciting things to do, such as playing erotic games, stroking and massage, masturbation and oral sex, watching each other and talking sexy. You may well come away feeling as if you have had a much more exciting time with a sex worker if you spend the time exploring some of these options.

– Sex workers have their own supplies of condoms. If you have problems using a condom, the Femidom is a female condom which forms a barrier inside the vagina. However, the Femidom does not protect the woman’s urethra or anus, and you need to be careful that semen does not run into these openings. Femidoms can also be used for anal sex (place it over the penis before penetration). Professional sex workers may refuse to use Femidoms.

– If you have a Herpes sore, do not make an appointment with a sex worker until you are sure it has gone. If a sore develops before an appointment, cancel it. Never allow a Herpes sore to come into contact with the skin of another person.

– If you have experienced unsafe sex with anyone, visit a Genito-urinary clinic for tests immediately. In fact, everyone who is sexually active should have regular check-ups as many infections have no obvious symptoms.

– If you have a discharge from the vagina or penis, spots, painful peeing or other symptoms, go to a clinic, refrain from sexual intercourse, and obey the instructions of the clinic.

– Never try to persuade a sex worker (or anyone for that matter) to have unsafe sex with you. This is insulting and dangerous.

– Each condom is to be used only once. If it falls off, use another. If the condom falls off or splits during intercourse, you need to use emergency techniques, ask your clinic for advice.

– The penis exudes pre-cum before ejaculation, so you need a condom on all the time penetration is taking place.

– Extra strong condoms are required for anal sex.
Remember that to stay safe means to stay healthy!

 

Taboo: sexual practice considered contrary to common decency or “off limits” in a particular society.

Taint: slang for the area that lies between the anus and the scrotum or vagina.

Tantric sex: a Hindu philosophy combining spiritual and indulgent sexual practices.

Teabagging: when a man lowers his testicles down onto someone’s mouth. So-called because of the resemblance to lowering a teabag into water.

Tease: to arouse someone sexually without following through.

The Stranger: a slang term for sitting on your hand long enough that it goes numb, then masturbating with it pretending that it’s someone else’s hand.

UNF: acronym for “Universal Noise for Fucking”, particularly heard during intercourse when the female moans but bites her lip to silence herself, heard as “uuuuhhhfff” or “ooooouuuhhhnnnnnfff”.

Vanilla Sex: slang for traditional or “ordinary” sex.

VFM: value for money.

Viagra (or Blue pill): a medication designed to improve erectile dysfunction in men by increasing blood flow to the pelvic region.

Vibrator: a mechanical device designed to sexually stimulate the vulva, clitoris, and vagina.

Wank: to masturbate.

Water Sports: sex play which involves urine or enemas.

X-dresser: short for cross dresser.

X-factor: an individual’s sex appeal or general attractiveness.

YMMV: Your Mileage May Vary (you could get different results).